I see you stalking me!!

I’m teasing, but I’m happy to have you here because that just means that you’re interested in growth or are on your self growth journey!!

If you’re looking for guidance or are interested to see why you should even go on your growth journey let me share my story on how I got here in the first place 

First off my name is Janette Zeto and I am a relationship and mindset coach! 

Before I emerged myself in the healing your attachment style world, I was in the personal development world. See I was always interested in self growth and being resilient. 

It started off with my first toxic relationship ….

Here I let my emotions consume me and I was an anxious mess. I would share my feelings with anyone and everyone because I didn’t know how to process the pain and heartache I was going through. I didn’t know my worth so put myself through manipulation and pain. In this process I lost myself. I didn’t know who I was after I lost them. It took me a while, but I was able to break out of that mentality. I told myself that I didn’t want to go through anything like that ever again and so I took my first steps into the direction of personal growth. I learned how to be resilient and confident. I was careful about who I shared my emotions with. I learned how to not care about what strangers thought of me and pushed myself to step out of my comfort zone. 

Now here I thought I knew my worth. I thought I wouldn’t let anyone treat me that bad ever again… 

But I was wrong and unfortunately I found myself ending up in another toxic relationship

I continued to excuse behaviors thinking they will change. Yes I was stronger this time and didn’t lose myself, but I allowed myself to be disrespected once again. I thought they would change and so stayed stuck in the situation. It wasn’t until I slowly found myself becoming numb to the situation that I broke it off. I was so tired and exhausted from the same fights and manipulation that I mentally detached myself. 

Then I finally built up the courage to break it off …

During this time the world of healing my inner child came into my life. I realize that there was so much more to self growth through attachment styles. 

I realized that a lot of our “toxic behaviors” and attachment came from a rooted blueprint that we had subconsciously rewire into our mind. I found myself understanding that I needed to balance myself and heal from those extreme emotions I thought I had under control. During my journey I found myself finally being able to surrender to vulnerability. I was able to express myself more authentically and rewire those negative perceptions towards emotions. Now my inner child is more reassured and my boundaries are more sturdy. Now I understand myself a lot more and am able to connect with my inner child with self compassion. I am forever grateful for this freeing feeling being able to release judgment and fear as I continue my life long growth journey. 

This inspired me to coach other powerful millennial women to heal their inner child so they can step into their power too. It’s time to break the toxic cycle of codependency, self doubt, distrust, overthinking, negative thoughts, chronic guilt and shame, and anxiousness. 

Don’t just leave the toxicity but leave the version of yourself that let the toxicity control you … 

Now its your time to grow

Let’s empower each other and thrive!